Sometimes it is useful to let go of your habits and principles and rules you came up for yourself. It gives you some kind of balance. But what if you just NEED to fall off of them once in a while in order to grow?
I write a lot about setting goals, living with a constant drive, creating habits that improve and support your life situation, trying to become better each day and aligning your life with your inner purpose. This is the stuff I would call “positive” motivation. You push yourself towards something you want and desire and this powerful drag usually helps you to achieve everything you...
Sometimes I find myself seeking my emotional stability not within myself but in other external factors. I look at my current life situation – and depending on my flawed judgement at this very moment – I decide how to feel in this very situation. Am I allowed to feel good right now? Or more like a piece of shit? “I have huge debts and no money, I am a loser and I should feel like...