You start to gossip. And point out all the little things they DON'T have going in their life. And neglect all the other amazing things they have accomplished. Now you focus on all the bad parts of them. And you become a mean and shitty person.
I didn't tell anyone when I was just getting started. Honestly, I didn’t tell anyone because I was scared. I didn’t want to be rejected. I was scared SHITLESS. And isn't it the worst idea ever to think about putting you and your thoughts out there when you are afraid of being rejected?